Thursday, June 26, 2025

 

Can Mediums Really “Prove” the Afterlife? What Evidence Looks Like in a Session

Skepticism is natural. In fact, I welcome it. I always say that healthy curiosity is the sign of an open mind—not a closed heart. One of the most misunderstood aspects of mediumship is the idea of “proof.” People ask, “How do I know it’s real?” And that’s a fair question. But the answer isn’t found in flashy tricks or general guesses. It’s in the details—deeply personal, verifiable, and emotionally resonant.

In a session, I don’t just say, “Your mother is here and she loves you.” That’s lovely, of course, but not evidence. True evidential mediumship includes specifics—like how your mother wore a certain ring every day, or how she always hummed that silly tune when she cooked, or how she held your hand tightly in the hospital. These aren’t things a stranger could guess. These are fingerprints of the soul.

Sometimes spirit brings up recent events—something you just did that morning, or a decision you’ve been wrestling with in private. These validations help establish that spirit is aware, present, and still involved in your life. They are not watching from afar—they’re still rooting for you, guiding you, and deeply invested in your wellbeing.

Of course, not every session brings through “proof” in the way we might expect. Sometimes the most powerful evidence is emotional: the way you feel when you hear their words, or the sudden peace that replaces long-held anxiety. These moments may not be tangible, but they are undeniably real.

If you’ve ever wondered whether your loved one is still with you, a session can offer more than hope—it can offer validation. Visit www.aperfectsoul.com to schedule a reading and experience what real spiritual connection feels like.

Monday, June 23, 2025

 

Do Spirits Have Personalities? Yes—and They Still Show Up With Them

One of the most reassuring aspects of mediumship is that our loved ones don’t lose who they are when they pass. Their essence—quirks, humor, emotional tone, even stubbornness—remains intact. Spirit doesn’t become a vague mist. They remain themselves, just lighter, freer, and more focused on love.

In session, I often feel the personality of a communicator before I even receive words. A sarcastic grandfather will bring a smirk. A gentle mother may send warmth through my body. A rebellious teenager might bring a wild surge of energy. These are not hallucinations—they’re spiritual impressions. And when I describe them, clients often laugh or cry in recognition.

Knowing that your loved one still feels like them is comforting. It means the connection hasn’t dissolved. It’s simply changed forms. Even if there were challenges in the relationship while they were living, spirit often shows up in a more balanced, peaceful state. But their spirit—their spark—remains.

Understanding that our loved ones retain their personalities also makes the communication feel more genuine. You're not just getting a message—you’re reuniting with a presence that meant something to you. It brings comfort, closure, and sometimes even inside jokes.

If you miss someone’s unique essence and want to reconnect, I would be honored to hold that space for you. Book your appointment at www.aperfectsoul.com. Let’s bring their personality back into the room—with love.

Saturday, June 21, 2025

 

The Spirit World Is Always Listening—Even When You Don’t Speak Aloud

One of the most common questions I get is: “What if I never said goodbye?” That thought weighs heavily on the heart. The truth is, spirit doesn’t require words to hear you. You don’t have to have spoken something out loud in life to have it known and felt on the other side. In fact there's nothing to really say goodbye to..we live on eternally.

The spirit world is tuned into emotion and intention—not just language. A sigh, a longing, a memory carried in your body—all of these communicate volumes to those who have passed. They know your heart, even when your voice faltered. Especially when your voice faltered.

In session, spirit will often reference things the client never said out loud—thoughts they kept private, wishes they held in silence, or regrets that never found expression. When those topics are brought up, there’s often a release. Tears fall. Shoulders drop. The burden of “not enough” starts to lift.

This is the miracle of spiritual communication: even our silence is heard. Even our unanswered prayers are acknowledged. Nothing is lost, even if it was never spoken. Spirit receives it all, with love.

If you've been holding onto words you never said, let’s bring that energy into the light. You don’t have to carry it alone. Book a session at www.aperfectsoul.com, and let spirit answer the ache your voice couldn’t express.

Monday, June 16, 2025

 

Is There a “Right” Time to Have a Reading? How to Know You’re Ready

Clients often ask me, “Is it too soon?” or “Did I wait too long?” The truth is, there’s no perfect timeline for connecting with spirit. Some people feel called to a session days after a loss. Others wait years. What matters most is that you feel ready to receive—emotionally, energetically, spiritually.

If the desire to reconnect is coming from a place of desperation or urgency, I usually recommend giving yourself a little time to breathe. Spirit doesn’t operate on pressure—they respond to intention. When you feel more grounded, even just slightly, that’s usually a good signal that a session can bring healing rather than overwhelm.

That said, waiting too long out of fear can also rob you of comfort and connection. I’ve seen people carry regret for decades, only to discover that the one they lost has been waiting with love, ready to reassure them: You didn’t do anything wrong. I’ve always been with you.

There is no spiritual stopwatch. Spirit is timeless. They come when the invitation is open and the moment is aligned. If you’ve been thinking about a session and the thought keeps returning, that’s often your intuition—and maybe even spirit—gently nudging you.

If your heart has been whispering, maybe it’s time, I welcome you to explore that with me. Visit www.aperfectsoul.com and trust that when you’re ready, spirit already knows.

Thursday, June 12, 2025

 

What If I’m Afraid of What Spirit Will Say? Let’s Talk About That

It’s completely normal to feel a mix of excitement and apprehension before a mediumship session. Some people worry that spirit might bring up something uncomfortable, or worse—that they'll be judged. But here’s what I’ve learned after hundreds of readings: spirit doesn’t come through to shame or scold. They come through to heal.

Even if a relationship was strained in life, spirit often returns in a more evolved, peaceful state. They acknowledge past mistakes without harshness. Their messages are rooted in understanding, not blame. If anything, spirit often apologizes or provides insight into behaviors that once caused pain. They’re not here to reopen wounds—they’re here to help close them with care.

Sometimes people fear they'll hear bad news. But spirit doesn’t bring doom and gloom. Their concern isn’t to predict your misfortunes—it’s to support your growth. If any guidance is shared, it’s offered with encouragement and hope. Spirit wants you to live more fully, not fearfully.

Mediumship isn't about dredging up the past—it’s about reconnecting with love, finding resolution, and remembering that you are still supported. It’s often far more uplifting than people expect. In fact, many clients leave with a renewed sense of peace, perspective, and inner strength.

So if fear has been keeping you from booking a session, know that spirit meets you where you are—with compassion, not condemnation. When you’re ready, visit www.aperfectsoul.com to connect in a space that honors your emotions and respects your pace.

Thursday, June 5, 2025

 

What Happens After a Reading? How to Process and Integrate the Experience

The moments following a mediumship reading can be just as powerful as the session itself. Emotions may still be swirling. Tears might come. Or you might feel calm and stunned into a quiet, sacred silence. However you feel—it’s all valid. Spirit communication touches us at a deep level, and that energy needs space to land.

Some people feel an immediate release—like they’ve exhaled something they didn’t even know they were holding. Others find that insights continue to unfold over the next few days. A phrase spoken by a loved one during the reading might keep echoing, suddenly making more sense later on. That’s because mediumship isn’t a one-time event—it’s a catalyst for continued healing.

I always recommend creating time after a session to be still, journal, take a walk, or rest. Let your heart catch up to what your soul just received. Some clients re-listen to their session or jot down memories that surfaced during the reading. This integration process is not just helpful—it’s part of the energetic unfolding that allows healing to deepen.

Spirit may continue to send signs in the days following a session—feathers, songs, repeating numbers, dreams. These are their way of reaffirming: Yes, it was me. Yes, I’m still here. Receiving them is a reminder that your connection is alive and ongoing.

If you've recently had a session or are thinking about one, know that the experience is sacred not just during the reading—but in the days, weeks, and months that follow. You can book a session at www.aperfectsoul.com and take the next step in your healing journey with presence and care.

Monday, June 2, 2025

 

Are There Bad Spirits? The Truth About “Hauntings,” Ghosts, and Mediumship

It’s one of the most common concerns people whisper to me after they learn I’m a medium: “You’re not going to attract any bad spirits, are you?” Or, “Aren’t you scared you’ll bring something dark into your house?” Hollywood and folklore have done a masterful job of embedding these fears into our culture. But here’s the truth: the spirit world is not out to get you. There are no evil beings lurking in the shadows, waiting to jump out during a reading. That’s myth, not mediumship.

Mediumship, at its core, is an act of love and connection. It’s about tuning into the higher vibrational frequency of spirit—one that is guided by healing, compassion, and purpose. When people talk about “bad spirits,” what they’re usually referring to is energy—residual emotion that clings to places, not beings that follow or haunt. For example, if you’ve ever walked into a room and felt a heaviness in your chest or a sense of unease, you’re likely sensing emotional residue, not a ghost. Our nervous systems are sensitive to the energy left behind by trauma, arguments, sadness, or even repetitive grief.

When someone says their house is haunted, what they’re likely experiencing is a pattern of energy that has gone unprocessed. Maybe someone once passed away in the home and that grief remains. Maybe there’s history—sorrow, illness, or neglect—that left a psychic imprint. But these impressions don’t have agendas or personalities. They don’t “attack.” They simply exist, and they can often be cleared with intention, compassion, and a little help from someone who understands how energy works.

The belief in evil spirits often stems from unhealed fear-based thinking, sometimes reinforced by childhood conditioning or religious dogma. Our brains are meaning-making machines, and when something unexplainable happens—like a creaky floorboard, a flickering light, or an emotional dream—we reach for the most dramatic story available. But spirit isn’t drama. Spirit is gentle, nuanced, wise, and always working for our highest good. It is only when we are in fear that we interpret neutral or loving messages as threatening.

At A Perfect Soul, I create a safe, grounded, and loving space for every session. Spirit communication is never about opening the door to something scary—it’s about opening the heart to something profoundly healing. If you’re someone who’s been curious but hesitant because of what you’ve seen on TV or been told to fear, I lovingly encourage you to reconsider. Visit www.aperfectsoul.com to learn more or book a session. Let’s replace fear with understanding—and maybe even a little wonder.

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