When Spirit Helps Us Forgive Ourselves
Forgiveness is often the hardest part of grief. We might forgive others with time, but when it comes to ourselves, we seem to resist. Our mind replays every decision, every word left unsaid, every perceived mistake. Yet, in Spirit’s eyes, love was always enough.
One woman, Theresa, came to me after losing her sister to cancer. She wept as she shared, “I convinced her to try one more treatment. It made her sicker. I can’t forgive myself.” As soon as her sister’s presence filled the space, I felt only gratitude radiating from her. “Tell her she gave me time,” she said. “Because of her, I was able to say goodbye.”
When I spoke those words, Theresa’s tears changed from pain to release. What she carried as guilt, her sister carried as grace. This is something I’ve witnessed time and again—Spirit helping the living lay down burdens they were never meant to hold.
From the higher perspective of the spirit world, our loved ones see the truth without distortion. They see intention, not just action. They see love behind decisions that may have caused pain. And they see how deeply we’ve suffered thinking we failed them.
One time when my son came through it was to tell me that he understood now that everything I did or said to him was out of love. I felt that instant release of guilt and shame and felt the love he was pouring out to me. I forgave myself too.
Forgiveness from Spirit isn’t about excusing what happened—it’s about understanding that human love is always imperfect and yet still divine. They remind us that we did the best we could with what we knew at the time.
If you’ve been holding on to regret, please know your loved one is already at peace. They’re not waiting for an apology—they’re waiting for you to free yourself.
You don’t have to carry guilt alone. Spirit’s compassion reaches across every boundary, and I’d be honored to help you feel it directly. Schedule a reading through aperfectsoul.com.
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