Booking a reading with a medium is a deeply personal step. For many, it comes at a time of grief, longing, or a heartfelt desire for connection with someone they’ve lost. Whether this is your first time or you’ve sat with a medium before, it’s natural to feel a mix of emotions—curiosity, nervousness, hope, even doubt.
First, allow me to reassure you: you don’t have to “do” anything special to be worthy of hearing from your loved ones in spirit. They already know you're coming, and they’re often just as eager to connect with you as you are with them.
Still, there are a few gentle ways you can prepare—emotionally and energetically—to help you feel more grounded and open to the experience.
1. Set an Intention, Not an Expectation
Before your reading, take a few quiet moments to reflect. What is your heart longing for? Is there someone specific you hope to hear from? A question you carry in your soul? While setting an intention can help center you, try not to form rigid expectations. Spirit communication is led by love, not control—and the soul who comes forward is often the one you need most, even if it’s not who you expected.
2. Keep an Open Mind and Heart
Mediumship is a conversation between two worlds. It’s often subtle, symbolic, and layered with meaning. Your loved one may come through with memories, names, shared experiences, or personality traits that help you recognize them. Some messages might feel clear, while others might take time to fully understand. The more open you are, the more space there is for the connection to unfold naturally.
3. Know That Spirit Leads the Way
You don’t need to bring photos or personal items (unless it brings you comfort). Mediums connect with the energy of your loved ones, and that energy is always accessible. I never know in advance who will come through—it’s always the soul with the strongest message or the deepest need to make their presence known. And they never come empty-handed.
4. Simple Responses Are Best During the Reading
To keep the connection with spirit strong, you’ll be asked to respond with short answers like yes, no, maybe, or I don’t know. This allows the medium to stay focused and prevents interpretation from getting in the way of the message. There will be time at the end to ask questions or offer feedback, so don’t worry about holding back.
5. Allow the Emotions to Come
It’s completely okay to cry. To laugh. To feel surprised or even overwhelmed. A reading can stir emotions you haven’t touched in a long time—or bring a deep sense of peace you didn’t expect. Whatever comes up, know that it’s part of the healing, part of the love. There is no right or wrong way to feel.
6. After the Reading, Give Yourself Time
Many people say they feel a softness in their heart or a quiet stillness after a session. Others feel energized and light. Take a little time afterward to reflect or rest. Journaling your thoughts and any messages that stood out can be a beautiful way to honor the experience and continue the healing process.
Most of All, Know This:
Your loved ones are not gone. They’ve simply stepped into another form—one that doesn’t require a body, but still holds all the love, wisdom, and connection you shared. A mediumship reading is a sacred opportunity to experience that love again in a new way.
If you're feeling called to connect with a loved one in spirit, I would be honored to walk that path with you.
You can learn more about my process, read client experiences, or book a session at www.aperfectsoul.com.
The soul-to-soul bond you share with your loved one is eternal—and sometimes, the right words from the spirit world can bring the kind of healing that changes everything.
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