Why Some Spirits Come Through First

Why Some Spirits Come Through First

When a loved one passes, we naturally want them to be the one who shows up in a reading. But sometimes, someone else steps forward first—a relative we weren’t expecting, or even someone we barely knew. It’s not random. Spirit has a divine order in their timing.

In one session, a woman named Lila came hoping to hear from her husband. Instead, her late father-in-law appeared. She looked surprised but listened. He said, “Tell her I was there when he crossed.” A few minutes later, her husband’s energy emerged—strong, peaceful, radiant. The father-in-law had simply opened the door, preparing her heart for what came next.

Sometimes the spirit that comes through is the one who has the exact right message in the moment for you.

Spirit communication often follows energetic logic, not emotional expectation. Those who arrive first are usually the ones best able to bridge energy or ease tension. It’s never a sign your loved one can’t come through—only that love has layers.

If you’ve ever had a reading where someone unexpected appeared, consider that Spirit always works with intention. I’d love to help you discover why certain souls step forward first. You can book a session at aperfectsoul.com.