One of the most common questions I hear is this:
“Is it too soon to connect with them?”
Closely followed by:
“Did I wait too long?”
Grief makes us second-guess timing. Spirit doesn’t.
When someone we love passes, time becomes strange. Days drag. Years blur. We assume there must be a right window. A moment when connection is possible. A moment when it closes.
That isn’t how it works.
Spirit doesn’t experience time the way we do. There is no expiration date on love, memory, or relationship. I’ve connected with loved ones who passed weeks ago and others who passed decades ago. The quality of connection doesn’t weaken with time.
What does change is us.
Early grief can be loud. Heavy. Overwhelming. Not wrong. Just loud. In those early days, some people feel desperate to connect. Others can’t imagine opening that door yet.
Both are okay.
Spirit is patient. They don’t rush. They don’t take it personally. They meet us where we are, not where we think we should be.
If you’re feeling drawn now, that’s enough. If you weren’t ready before, that doesn’t mean you missed anything. Love doesn’t operate on deadlines.
There is no “too soon.”
There is no “too late.”
There is only readiness. And that looks different for everyone.
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