When Spirit Visits Through Nature

When Spirit Visits Through Nature

The natural world is alive with Spirit’s energy. From the flutter of wings to the rustle of leaves, Spirit often uses nature to speak because it’s one of the purest forms of communication. The earth listens, and so should we.

A woman named Sonia once told me she began seeing owls everywhere after her husband passed. “They’re carved into our wedding rings,” she said softly. “Now I see them on billboards, coffee cups, and in the trees outside my window.” During her session, her husband came through saying, “That’s me. The owls are how you’ll know I’m near.”

That one message transformed her grief. The signs hadn’t been coincidences — they were conversations.

A few days after my son's passing my husband and I were in our community dog park with my two greyhounds.  We were the only two there. Suddenly a hawk appeared overhead about 3' above me.  It flew around and around for about 20 minutes. I knew without a shadow of a doubt that it was my son letting me know he was flying free now. It was one of the most memorable moments for me.

Nature acts as a bridge between dimensions because it vibrates with life energy. I’ve seen cardinals appear during moments of deep sorrow, dragonflies hover during memorials, and sudden breezes blow through still rooms when someone speaks a loved one’s name. Spirit weaves their presence through all of it.

These signs aren’t just symbols — they’re sacred synchronizations. They remind us that love doesn’t vanish when the body does; it continues to move through creation itself.

If you’ve been noticing recurring animals, plants, or natural patterns, take a moment to acknowledge them. Speak out loud, “I see you.” You may feel a warmth or tingling in response. That’s connection.

Your loved one may be using nature to whisper, “I never left.” And if you’d like help understanding what those signs mean for you personally, I’d be honored to help. Visit aperfectsoul.com to schedule a reading.

When Spirit Brings Validation Through Emotion

When Spirit Brings Validation Through Emotion

Sometimes, the most powerful evidence of Spirit isn’t what’s said — it’s what’s felt. Words can be misheard or forgotten, but feelings leave no doubt. When Spirit draws close, the energy of love itself becomes the language.

A woman named Clara once came to a session hoping to hear from her grandmother. As soon as the connection began, an overwhelming sense of peace washed through the room — a familiar warmth that made us both tear up. “That’s exactly how I felt when she held me,” Clara whispered. Spirit didn’t need words. The emotion itself was the proof.

Emotion is Spirit’s frequency. They communicate through feeling because it bypasses logic and speaks directly to the soul. You might suddenly feel warmth in your chest, tears that arise without sadness, or laughter bubbling up from nowhere. These sensations aren’t random; they’re energetic signatures of love.

I’ve had sitters describe feeling their loved one’s hand on their shoulder or the sensation of a hug when no one else was there. These moments leave people stunned — not frightened, but profoundly moved. It’s as though the invisible becomes tangible for just a heartbeat.

Spirit’s goal is not to convince the mind, but to awaken the heart. Emotion is how they do it. It’s the one language that transcends both realms.

So if you’ve ever felt your loved one’s presence out of the blue and thought, that’s strange, trust the feeling. That wave of love, that sudden stillness — it’s their hello.

If you’d like to experience these emotional validations in a reading or learn to recognize them in your daily life, I’d be honored to guide you. Schedule a session at aperfectsoul.com.

How Spirit Uses Technology to Get Our Attention

How Spirit Uses Technology to Get Our Attention

Spirit adapts with the times. Decades ago, they flickered candles or moved clocks; now, they might light up your phone or shuffle your playlist to “your song” at the perfect moment. Love doesn’t resist technology—it uses it.

One of my sitters, a young man named Josh, shared a story that still gives me goosebumps. His brother had passed suddenly, and one morning, Josh woke up to find his brother’s photo as the wallpaper on his phone. “I never set that,” he said. “It just appeared.” During his reading, his brother laughed, “I told him to stop ignoring me! This got his attention.” That sense of humor, that spark of personality—it was exactly who his brother had been in life.

Spirit communicates through energy, and technology is simply another form of it. I’ve heard countless stories: alarm clocks ringing at the moment a loved one is mentioned, smart speakers turning on to play a song that holds deep meaning, text messages that inexplicably reappear from years ago.

My son has come to me through a song that I associate only with him. He's also turned lights off and on. One time I received an Instagram message that was clearly directed to his account notifying him that one of his friends had joined Instagram, yet it showed up in my account!!

Skeptics may dismiss it as coincidence, but those who experience it know it feels different. There’s an unmistakable feeling—a sacred “knowing” that something beyond logic has occurred. It isn't your imagination either! It's really them reaching out to you.

Spirit uses what’s available, meeting us where we live our modern lives. They don’t need words or physical presence to say, “I’m still here.” They’ll use light, electricity, code, or sound if it helps remind us that love is eternal.

If you’ve experienced strange “glitches” that felt more like grace than error, consider that Spirit may be speaking your digital language. And if you’d like to explore that connection more deeply, I’d love to help you understand the message behind the signs. Visit aperfectsoul.com to schedule a session.

When Spirit Helps Us Forgive Ourselves

When Spirit Helps Us Forgive Ourselves

Forgiveness is often the hardest part of grief. We might forgive others with time, but when it comes to ourselves, we seem to resist. Our mind replays every decision, every word left unsaid, every perceived mistake. Yet, in Spirit’s eyes, love was always enough.

One woman, Theresa, came to me after losing her sister to cancer. She wept as she shared, “I convinced her to try one more treatment. It made her sicker. I can’t forgive myself.” As soon as her sister’s presence filled the space, I felt only gratitude radiating from her. “Tell her she gave me time,” she said. “Because of her, I was able to say goodbye.”

When I spoke those words, Theresa’s tears changed from pain to release. What she carried as guilt, her sister carried as grace. This is something I’ve witnessed time and again—Spirit helping the living lay down burdens they were never meant to hold.

From the higher perspective of the spirit world, our loved ones see the truth without distortion. They see intention, not just action. They see love behind decisions that may have caused pain. And they see how deeply we’ve suffered thinking we failed them.

One time when my son came through it was to tell me that he understood now that everything I did or said to him was out of love. I felt that instant release of guilt and shame and felt the love he was pouring out to me. I forgave myself too.

Forgiveness from Spirit isn’t about excusing what happened—it’s about understanding that human love is always imperfect and yet still divine. They remind us that we did the best we could with what we knew at the time.

If you’ve been holding on to regret, please know your loved one is already at peace. They’re not waiting for an apology—they’re waiting for you to free yourself.

You don’t have to carry guilt alone. Spirit’s compassion reaches across every boundary, and I’d be honored to help you feel it directly. Schedule a reading through aperfectsoul.com.

The Healing Power of Shared Memories

The Healing Power of Shared Memories

Spirit has a remarkable way of bringing up the smallest, most ordinary moments — the ones that slip through the cracks of our memory but still hold immense meaning. It might be a burned dinner, a favorite song on a car ride, or the sound of laughter echoing through a kitchen long ago. These aren’t random details; they’re proof that love lingers in the quiet places.

During a recent session with a woman named Marylou her husband shared a memory of them taking an Alaskan cruise and the whales that showed up.  She was stunned and then elaborated on how they'd taken an excursion from the ship out on a small boat out. The captain exclaimed that he'd never seen so many whales breach the water at one time. It was an exhilarating experience for Marylou and her husband.

That one memory, resurrected decades later, opened a doorway of connection wider than any grand statement could. The message wasn’t about the whales—it was about love in action, love expressed through care, through the desire to give. Spirit knows that when they bring up those specific memories, they’re not just proving survival—they’re reigniting the feeling of being seen, cherished, and remembered.

I’ve found that the most healing readings often come through the simplest details. A father reminding his daughter about the time they danced in the kitchen to old country music. A grandmother recalling the scent of gardenias in her hair. A friend mentioning the inside joke that only the two of you ever understood.

Spirit knows we find comfort in the ordinary. They show us that what we considered “everyday life” was actually sacred all along. Those memories remind us that connection didn’t end—it simply changed form.

If you’ve been longing to feel your loved one near, to relive the warmth of those small but powerful moments, I’d be honored to help you reconnect. Schedule a session through aperfectsoul.com.

Why Some Spirits Come Through First

Why Some Spirits Come Through First

When a loved one passes, we naturally want them to be the one who shows up in a reading. But sometimes, someone else steps forward first—a relative we weren’t expecting, or even someone we barely knew. It’s not random. Spirit has a divine order in their timing.

In one session, a woman named Lila came hoping to hear from her husband. Instead, her late father-in-law appeared. She looked surprised but listened. He said, “Tell her I was there when he crossed.” A few minutes later, her husband’s energy emerged—strong, peaceful, radiant. The father-in-law had simply opened the door, preparing her heart for what came next.

Sometimes the spirit that comes through is the one who has the exact right message in the moment for you.

Spirit communication often follows energetic logic, not emotional expectation. Those who arrive first are usually the ones best able to bridge energy or ease tension. It’s never a sign your loved one can’t come through—only that love has layers.

If you’ve ever had a reading where someone unexpected appeared, consider that Spirit always works with intention. I’d love to help you discover why certain souls step forward first. You can book a session at aperfectsoul.com.

When Children in Spirit Reach Out

When Children in Spirit Reach Out

Few losses cut deeper than the passing of a child. The pain defies logic, the questions have no easy answers. Yet, I’ve witnessed again and again that children’s souls are radiant in Spirit—joyful, playful, and eager to comfort their families.

One mother, Emily, came to me after losing her 7-year-old son to illness. During her reading, he showed me a picture he’d drawn—a rainbow over their house. She gasped, “That was the last picture he ever made.” He then said, “Mom, I run faster now.”

That one line shattered her grief wide open into light. She said afterward, “For the first time since he passed, I felt peace.”

Children in Spirit often bring laughter, colors, and playful energy. They remind us that their essence remains childlike—free and loving. Their visits are never to remind you of pain, but to remind you that the connection continues in joy.

Note-You will never stop missing your child nor will you ever forget them. They do want you to move on with your life just as they are moving forward with theirs.

I know that every time my son speaks to me through another medium it feels wonderful to hear from him in that way. I do speak with him as well. It just feels different when it's coming from another medium. It's been 10 years since his passing.

If you’ve lost a child and long to feel that connection again, know that their light has never dimmed. I would be honored to help you reconnect at aperfectsoul.com.

When Guilt Lingers After Loss

When Guilt Lingers After Loss

Grief is heavy enough—but when guilt joins it, it becomes almost unbearable. “I should have done more.” “I wish I’d said something.” These are the quiet tortures that keep so many people from healing. But Spirit consistently shows us that love, not regret, is what they carry with them.

During a session with a woman named Janine, her brother came through after a sudden accident. She wept, “I should have called him that day.” His energy wrapped around her like a soft blanket as he said, “You couldn’t have known. I did feel your love—it never stopped.”
What Janine needed wasn’t forgiveness from him—it was permission to forgive herself.

Forgiving yourself is critical in being able to move forward with your life. When my son passed away I had tremendous guilt over things I wished I had said or done differently. What I reminded myself of is that in every given moment I was doing the best I could and so was he. I let myself off the hook for things I couldn't change and chose to move forward instead. 

Spirit often reminds us that from their perspective, the “what-ifs” don’t matter. The only thing that endures is the bond of love, and that’s never severed by human mistakes or timing.

If guilt has been a silent companion in your grief, know that your loved one wants you to lay it down. Their peace is already complete—they’re waiting for yours to join them. To receive that reassurance for yourself, you can schedule a reading through aperfectsoul.com.

The Subtle Ways Spirit Says Hello

The Subtle Ways Spirit Says Hello

Most people imagine Spirit communication as something dramatic—flashing lights, moving objects, or disembodied voices. The truth is that Spirit often whispers. They come gently, through everyday moments you might miss if you’re not paying attention.

It might be a song that plays the exact moment you think of them, or the sudden scent of their favorite perfume when no one is around. It’s the cardinal that lands on your porch just when you’ve been missing your father, or a familiar phrase that someone unexpectedly says that was uniquely “theirs.”

A man named Henry once shared that every time he felt lost, a single white feather would appear on his path. He didn’t know why until a reading revealed his mother had used feathers as bookmarks in her Bible! “That’s my sign,” she said through me. “When he finds one, I’m reminding him he’s guided.” His eyes filled with tears as years of “coincidences” suddenly made sense.

Spirit doesn’t need to be loud—they just need your awareness. The more you acknowledge these small winks from heaven, the more they’ll appear. That’s how love works—it expands when recognized.

If you’ve been sensing little “hellos” from beyond and want to understand their meaning, I’d love to help you explore them in a session. Visit aperfectsoul.com to connect.

Spirits Who Come Through When We Don’t Remember Them Clearly—And Why They’re Here

Spirits Who Come Through When We Don’t Remember Them Clearly—And Why They’re Here

Sometimes, during a reading, a spirit will come forward who leaves the sitter puzzled. “I don’t know anyone by that name,” they’ll say, or “That doesn’t sound familiar.” But Spirit always has a reason for showing up—even if it’s not immediately clear.

I remember a reading with a woman named Denise. The first energy to appear was a man in a military uniform. She shook her head, “No one in my family served.” Yet he was persistent, showing me medals and a distinct name tag. As the reading went on, she suddenly gasped, “Oh my goodness—that’s my grandfather’s brother. I never met him, but my mom used to talk about him.” He had come through to acknowledge Ellen’s son, who was considering enlisting in the military. “Tell him he’s watched over,” the spirit said.

What began as confusion turned into a moment of profound reassurance.

Sometimes distant relatives, childhood friends, or even family members we never met in life will step forward because they are part of our soul’s greater network. They remind us that we are deeply connected beyond memory and bloodline. They may come to deliver protection, encouragement, or simply to say, “You’re not alone.”

There are also times when the spirit of a loved one whom someone you're close to in life comes through. Generally you are the only way they can get a message to their loved one through the reading you're having. While it might feel dissappointing to you, the message might make a profound difference to the person it's intended for.  Stay open is all they ask.

Spirit’s messages always carry purpose, even when the messenger isn’t who we expected. Often, their presence connects a healing thread through generations—bridging the living and the departed in one continuous circle of love.

If you’ve ever wondered why an unfamiliar spirit might come through for you, I’d be honored to help you uncover their reason for reaching out. You can schedule a session through aperfectsoul.com.

You’re Not “Crazy”—You’re Connected: When Spirit Is Trying to Reach You

You’re Not “Crazy”—You’re Connected: When Spirit Is Trying to Reach You

Many people have said to me, “I think I’m going crazy.” They hear their name whispered in the night, smell a familiar perfume when no one’s around, or feel a sudden warmth wash over them for no reason. My first response is always the same: You’re not crazy—you’re connected.

My own son awakened me one night calling my name, Sharon, quite loudly.  I've also felt his presence on my bed next to me.

Spirit often uses subtle signs to get our attention. They communicate through sensations, emotions, lights flickering, songs playing at just the right moment. The trouble is, our logical mind is quick to dismiss these experiences. But our soul knows.

A young woman named Brianna once came to me terrified that she was “losing it.” She kept feeling her late mother’s presence—smelling her favorite roses and finding pennies everywhere. She said, “I tell myself it’s coincidence, but deep down it feels different.” During her reading, her mother came through clearly and said, “Tell her I am the one with the roses.” The room filled with peace. Brianna cried with relief. She said, “So I’m not imagining it?” And I smiled, “No, you’re awakening to it.”

When Spirit reaches out, it’s not to scare you. It’s to comfort, to reassure, to let you know life continues. Once you learn to trust your intuition instead of second-guessing it, you start to see that Spirit’s language is all around you.

You don’t need to be a medium to receive signs. You just need to stay open, grounded, and willing to believe that love finds a way to speak. The more you acknowledge those gentle nudges, the stronger the connection becomes. This is so true.

If you’ve been having experiences that you can’t explain and wonder if Spirit might be trying to reach you, I’d love to help you explore it in a session. You can schedule a reading through aperfectsoul.com.